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How To Turn Her On With Body Language 66,294 views 1K 43 SHARE Kate Spring Published on Jun 2, 2017 SUBSCRIBE 6.8K SUBSCRIBE SUBSCRIBED UNSUBSCRIBE http://www.katespring.com/ - How To Turn Her On With Body Language Hey YouTube, Kate Spring here, dating and relationship coach from Victoria, BC. A lot of you have been asking me how to turn a girl on with your body language. And that is an excellent question! This is one of the best ways to simulate some attraction between you and a little miss. Honestly, there is nothing better than those butterflies that you get in your stomach when you start to develop feelings for someone and their touch becomes electric! Body language is your non-verbal way of communicating with people. It is equally as important as your verbal communication. Whether you believe me or not, I promise you that we interact and we judge people based on this type of communication whether consciously or unconsciously. Having positive and engaging body language is key to putting yourself ahead in the dating world. Just before we get started, make sure if you have any questions at all to please leave them in the comments below and I’ll be sure to get back to you, personally, as soon as I can! And let me know of other topics you want me to cover. The best thing to remember, and I can’t stress this enough, is to make eye contact with her. Strong eye contact communicates to people that you are more dominant and powerful than say someone with shfity eyes or someone who is unable to hold eye contact. That type of person is understood as insecure. If you can make eye contact with a woman, she will perceive you to be warmer, likeable and approachable. And when you are speaking with a woman, and you are able to hold strong eye contact with her, it makes a girl feel like you are only paying attention to her, which you should be. One at a time, it’s like when you were little and your mom would only let you have one cookie at a time. Same thing applies here. When you are looking all around the room and not at her, she will become disengaged and probably not want to continue talking to you because through your eye contact, she feels like you would rather be elsewhere. So smile and face her with an open body posture. Don’t cross your arms in front of you, and start asking her questions about herself. These are the basics! Women are extremely receptive to body language. And this is your first step in turning her on with body language. Ask yourself, “what am I trying to accomplish with my body language?” Or “what am I trying to communicate through my body?” And, remember, you’re trying to communicate that you are a confident man with a lot to offer a woman! You also want to communicate interest and enthusiasm, not in the way where you stare at her and talk too close to her face. That will just make her uncomfortable and most likely force her to clam up. Women are attracted to power. You can communicate this by taking up space. What I mean by take up space is be big. If you’re sitting down don’t cross your legs or arms. Be open and sit with your legs apart and maybe even your arm on the chair next to you. If you are feeling flirty, and the situation feels right, you could slowly bridge the gap of space between you two. For example, soft touch on the shoulder, or guiding her to the bar with your hand at the small of her back is a good place to start. If she is interested in you and is also exhibiting some positive body language, then she will welcome this kind of touch. Attraction is best built in the body, but to learn how to continue to build attraction when you aren’t face to face, head over to katespring.com/free and pick up a copy of my Attraction Building Handbook, which is completely free by the way. Alright, if you want to know a little secret, Amy Cuddy gives a TED Talk about how body language shapes who you are. She suggests that before you are going into a job interview, in this case I’m going to say date, or any time you’re feeling nervous and or small, make yourself big and hold that pose for 2 minutes. Make yourself stand in a power pose. This could be with your arms straight up in the air or a superman-like pose. She says this has proven to make people feel more confident. So if you are finding yourself nervous, and you need an instant confidence boost, try this! I guarantee you that women will be more attracted to the confident version of yourself. Another way to turn women on is to be calm. Because women are attracted to powerful, confident men, if you are calm, she will mirror your reactions. Being calm means listening, having a relaxed body posture—one that isn’t rigid and still, but is loose and friendly. More: http://www.katespring.com/free Category Howto & Style 181 Comments SORT BY Oscar del Rosario Add a public comment... Christopher Lewis Christopher Lewis 3 months ago So, no leather ass-less chaps, got it. REPLY 15 View all 3 replies MuFaSa Tv MuFaSa Tv 3 months ago It also helps to be very social, especially at bars and clubs REPLY 10 View reply Mark Johnson Mark Johnson 1 week ago I understand your language and I definitely like your body REPLY 3 View reply revivalero shbz revivalero shbz 2 months ago Kate, I like your body language! :D REPLY 3 View reply Manish Kumar Manish Kumar 3 months ago Hi Kate I'm attracted to you... honestly I love your voice an accent REPLY 2 View all 3 replies Frederick Varrecchia Frederick Varrecchia 3 months ago I'm shy and run out of things to talk about. What do you suggest? REPLY 2 View all 3 replies Great Guardian King Great Guardian King 2 months ago Kate you're a gorgeous gal ^^ You look like an actress, like a super foxy Rachel Dawes in the Batman trilogy. Thanks for the advice. REPLY 1 View reply RONALD DAVID LEINDECKER RONALD DAVID LEINDECKER 3 months ago You rock Kate...keep up the good work! REPLY 6 View reply Maddy Kristian Maddy Kristian 1 week ago Hey Kate thank very much for you advise I lost my virginity because of you. Here is things I learned from you eye contact smile listening to woman and relaxing i start doing this everyday and I noticed a lot of girls end my class are starting to hug me and kissing me even a woman who has a kids she asked me if I wanted to visit her when her boyfriend is at work but I'm only 21 and she is 31 I don't know if it even good idea to sleep with old woman . Read more REPLY 1 View reply Chaos Descent Chaos Descent 2 months ago Great video. I have to say its cute how when you're talking you sort of suck in your bottom lip a lot. Keep up the good work. REPLY 4 View reply BIGWORLD0074 2 months ago all that work and then the road she cheats on you. it's better to be a player 🖒 REPLY 3 View reply Dxvastatiionzz 1 day ago Damn I loved this video, probably the first women to speak the truth about the female mind REPLY 1 View reply David Parry 2 months ago (edited) What I learned today... Stare at women. Pose, pointing genitals at them. Got it... REPLY 18 View all 2 replies kaas saus kaas saus 3 hours ago Im sorry but i cant look at peoples eyes longer than 2 sec. REPLY View reply emanuel teseira emanuel teseira 8 hours ago Very good video, you are nice REPLY View reply Manoffriendship Manoffriendship 19 hours ago How does an older man go about maintaining conversation with a 18-22 yr old woman ? REPLY View reply Zendu Zendu 1 day ago Coming from someone who gets most daring advice from RSD, NLS, Sasha Daygame e.t.c.... this is honestly great/straightforward/ well explained advice! REPLY View reply Shahzad Mengal Shahzad Mengal 1 day ago I like the way u talk I already subscribe to many channels so I thought I can't any more but still I did to be honest the all video I stare ur eyes sorry for this but they are beautiful.. REPLY View all 3 replies Stan Jones Stan Jones 1 day ago Great video. You give practical suggestions. REPLY View reply Charles Kashyap Charles Kashyap 1 day ago How to ask a girl out or to be my girlfriend when we r very good friends and have conversations everyday REPLY View reply Gregory Anderson Gregory Anderson 3 days ago Well presented REPLY View reply Tom Comstock Tom Comstock 5 days ago Hi Kate, I'd say you are a true friend :) REPLY View reply The Gaming Review The Gaming Review 6 days ago thank u Kate nice one I will sub u REPLY View reply kaas saus kaas saus 1 week ago Can you talk about: how to start a conversation with a girl and keep it going, without being just a friend (no friendzone) REPLY View all 2 replies The Gaming Review The Gaming Review 1 week ago nice video lol how can I be attractive without nice body REPLY View reply James Johnson James Johnson 1 week ago Always comes down to the same old : show that you are the owner of the current territory, and women will be attracted. And it's all about first impressions, because women are emotionally focused. REPLY View reply john brandenburg john brandenburg 1 week ago (edited) How about men send women signal,s they like her like sitting with our legs open and point our Genitals at the women we like ! that means we like you ok. REPLY View reply Lion King Matiouz Lion King Matiouz 2 weeks ago Good advices ;) REPLY View reply Pavan Hegde Pavan Hegde 2 weeks ago Hey I would like to follow you on instagram. REPLY View all 4 replies David Ridlespriger David Ridlespriger 2 weeks ago snap. 😆 REPLY View reply Ritik Arora Ritik Arora 1 month ago hey Kate. there was a girl in my neighborhood. She is shy and starts to look here and there when you look her in the eye.What should I do.? REPLY View all 5 replies dEBA Maisnam dEBA Maisnam 1 month ago (edited) What if we met and I did all these ... On a scale of 1-10, how turned on would you be ? :P Great tips btw ... REPLY View reply blueshirt06 blueshirt06 1 month ago I have this habit of crossing my arms I do it without even thinking about it REPLY View reply medish Jay medish Jay 1 month ago How to get to her without being panic REPLY View all 3 replies cr8ive cr8ive 1 month ago My car has a car spring . . . but its not as beautiful as Kate Spring... ; ) REPLY View reply guitarsk8r32 guitarsk8r32 1 month ago I've passed the no contact period and created some distance. Is it safe to say every interaction should be a positive one? REPLY View reply Schaufelor Schaufelor 1 month ago Usually i would say don´t ever listen to a woman if you want to know how to turn on women. But you are an exception! And you are very beautiful and cute and have a calming voice :) REPLY View reply newffee newffee 1 month ago Eye contact is important because it creates a sense of interest between people as long as it's not starring with a grimace on your face LOL But what if you have severe ADHD and you've been a observer all your life and your just interested in downloading knowledge from all around you? Oh look a magnificent piece of art, what's that guy doing sleeping naked in the corner? Did i eat breakfast this morning? Geez she's cranky who shit in her cheerios this morning? :P Read more REPLY View reply Maddy Kristian Maddy Kristian 1 month ago I usually don't listen to woman's advice because most of the time when you try to do what they tell you to do it's never workout but you SM Like you know What you are talking about anyway how do I download you book on iPhone i wants to try woman's advice this time thanks REPLY View all 3 replies william field william field 2 months ago Thank you for breakung it down so that we can understand👍. Especially a womans perspective. Wish I had known this ten years ago. 😊 REPLY View reply My Cloud My Cloud 2 months ago